Tuesday, February 17, 2009
How to Get a Girlfriend Fast.
Most of the dating service websites give generalized methods and approaches if you wish to know how to get a girlfriend fast. However, certain basic principles apply in getting a girlfriend, irrespective of the type of person you are. The key aspects in winning a girlfriend are presented here briefly.
Self-confidence is the most fundamental issue for knowing how to get a girlfriend fast. You should believe that there are people out there, who would like you and admire you for what you are.
Along with self-confidence, you also require certain level of self-esteem. Unless you show that you respect yourself, others are not going to respect you. However, the self-esteem should stop short of arrogance, which could easily turn people off.
You should have good power of observation and listening to others. The more you listen, the more people like you. Observation helps you to understand their whims and fancies. When you understand the girl better, you can adjust yourself that much faster to her nature.
Behave normally. Never try to act or put on a facade. Most girls possess inherent power to detect deception must faster than men.
If you had faced rejection from a girl in the past, do not keep harping on it. Analyze without bias what went wrong. If the mistake is yours, you could always correct yourself. If the error was on the part of the girl, feel happy that you escaped from such a girl. Rejection leading to regret and self-remorse is the most dangerous thing to pull you down.
If you feel you have a few flaws or deficiencies, there is nothing to ashamed of about them. Nobody in the world is perfect. Be yourself. If you have a receding hairline, why hide it? Nearly one-third of the male population in the world has that problem. If the girl really likes you as a person, lack of few hairs is not going to make any difference to her.
These are only some fundamental points in your effort to get a girlfriend fast. You can definitely think of several more, if you sit down and think calmly.
Posted by Suade at 10:20 AM